Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

2006-09-27 04:57:26 · 8 answers · asked by Raul R 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 31, when I was 8 my parents divorced and my father remarried when I was 10. The woman he married to this day make my skin crawl, she drove a wedge between me and him and it is still there. I know she didn't do it alone, he allowed her to.

Here I am now, 21 years down the road and my grandmother pasted away a few weeks ago. She is literally the only reason I had been around all this time. Because I had been on the outside for so many years I was vertually a stranger at my grandmothers funeral. People didn't even know who I was or was affraid to talk to me b/c it had been so long. When it came to the Lady's Auxilary Ceremony they did, everyone in my immediately except myself (my dad, his wife, my aunt her kids and their spouces) all sat in the front, no one gave me a seat, I sat in the back and cried b/c they literally couldn't muster the strength to say anything, plus it wasn't the time or place.

Now I feel a void like I have no relationship with my dad.

2006-09-27 04:57:24 · 4 answers · asked by channielynn 3 in Family

What's the truth here? Have I been lied to all these years with the compliments on my ocean currents?

2006-09-27 04:56:25 · 15 answers · asked by Mongo 2 in Singles & Dating

I've met some really cool guys online; some I've gone out with and really enjoyed thier company. No love connection though. One guy who lives in Tampa was awesome, but we were too much alike. Now, I've met this great guy and I've fallen in love!!! We talk EVERYDAY and for hours; about what's going on in the world, religion, and we even discuss silly things like people with bad breath who love to use words that begin with W, T, TH. We've even said those three words. We've been talking since May and next weekend we'll be seeing each other for the first time; do you think we'll still have the connetion we do on the phone??

2006-09-27 04:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by Diva E 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this party thrown every year,the host is a friend of my ex.I caught my ex of a few years cheating on me so it has been a messy breakup.My brother is also friends with the host(my brother and ex are best friends)I am over and done with my ex,everyone knows that,although my ex is still trying to get me back.So whenever we are around eachother he freaks out,so therefor I was originally not invited to the party(since they are his friends)but now I am invited.The only reason I want to go is because there is this guy who might be there that comforted me one night when I was still bitter about catching my ex.He had a lot of respect for me and the last time I saw him he came to me and said"your killing me".I was told from a mutual friend he likes me but is freaked about my ex.I have not seen him in about 5 months.I want to go to the party in hopes of talking to him again,but im afraid I might start drama by showing up,would you go?

2006-09-27 04:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 04:55:54 · 3 answers · asked by fat t 1 in Family

If you were to date, have or are dating someone who is married do you believe they deserve the same special things like honesty, respect, trust, material things, attention like single people?

(Mature answers only, please)

2006-09-27 04:55:39 · 22 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Singles & Dating

Friday I was looking through my boyfriend save chats from his work Instant Messenger. In one of the chats he was talking with his buddy at work about another co-worker problem. His buddy was like the co-worker would never talk about his personal if my boyfriend ask. Then my boyfriend was like I never ask him about his personal life anyway unless it's about his sister. Then he told his buddy at work have you seen her. His buddy was like yea his sister is hot. My boyfriend was like h--- yea. Then his buddy was like does she have a boyfriend. Then my boyfriend said he never ask but one of the other guys at work ask her brother to hook them up. My boyfriend told his buddy at work if had to pick a girl out of line and he had to choose from the girls he work with everyday and the co-workers sister he would pick his sister 9 out of 10 times. Is this typical guy talk or is this something I should mad over?

2006-09-27 04:55:38 · 17 answers · asked by MiniMail 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am a little unsure but here's the thing I have a wonderful boyfriend who I am head over heel in love with. But then there is my best friend who is indeed awesome. I have known him since middle school and at one point I liked him and he liked me but high school came and the thought slipped away. Now I have a boyfriend and they have met but he doesn’t really acknowledge the relationship though we have been together for almost 2 years. I'm sometimes with him and he sometimes gets very close to me just to know that I am there. We are in college now and he has always looked out for me even when he was far away. There was a time when his grandmother died and I stayed up all night just to comfort him and he always brought me home from school. And the next day he did not come to school and he made sure that someone took me home and I didn't even ask. Moral of the story I love him dearly and he feels the same but sometimes it seems like more. Am I crazy?

2006-09-27 04:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by dana 2 in Singles & Dating

I hope so because i have an online friend that i dont want to lose

2006-09-27 04:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Chris F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ex-husband with a restraining order? The guy is always driving by the house for no reason, but everytime I want to call an attorney, she tells me to back off.

2006-09-27 04:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm getting married next Sept. and want to get my wedding party champagne glasses with the words bridesmaid, groomsman, etc I have found several sites but I havent found any that have Matron of honor could someone please help by telling me of a site I can order it or a site where I can have one personalized. Thanks

2006-09-27 04:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Crissy 1 in Weddings

I met this boy his in my school,his two years older then me.He asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes...so every thing was great,intil a fleuw days later a called him and this girl aswered and she told me that she diden't what me to call more me cause she was his girfriend.And the next day i wen't to school and asked who was that girl and he told me that he diden't want to be with me anymore...so what can i do nothing write?

2006-09-27 04:51:19 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you ask a question and google makes you catagorize it, which catagory do you use the most?

2006-09-27 04:51:07 · 2 answers · asked by honorbright24 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you met somebody that you fell in love with/wanted to be with and you were already with somebody for about 10-11yrs and tired of them didn't want to be with them anymore, but they refused to leave knowing how you felt about them even had been told a few times that you weren't happy with them anymore. You really want to be with that other person, but because the one you live with is being an a$$ an making it hard for you to try and move on with this other person what would you do? Without the one your with knowing you want to be with somebody else (It's your house too you own it!)

2006-09-27 04:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by mzjaydawg 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 04:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

But if a Woman has sex with few different Men she's a Sl*t

2006-09-27 04:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by mr_nice_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone I know met a guy and then subsequently left her husband. This guy has a wife and Children, but has yet to leave them. If she's his mistress, what is he to her?

2006-09-27 04:50:09 · 44 answers · asked by Alex M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so what do you do to nourish it or why don't you?
Do souls grow on their own or do they need encouragement. Do you only use religion to feed it, or is humanity enough. Do you concentrate upon it's growth at all?

2006-09-27 04:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by honorbright24 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What's the best and easiest way to pull woman?

2006-09-27 04:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by Vinni o s 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to the store the other day ,and me and the agent we flirting back and fourth as she was doing the paper work.She did make the comment about me having a woman and her being carefull. (long story short ) my woman came in the store,but we were still talking but the conversation changed.Now that i think about it I think I might know her from somewhere but can't figure it out, and its been on my mind ever since.SHOULD I CALL HER AT HER JOB OR just leave it be?

2006-09-27 04:49:05 · 15 answers · asked by basicskl 2 in Singles & Dating

And do you make it important enough in your own life?

2006-09-27 04:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by honorbright24 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 04:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like most of the men I meet for the first time on a date show up in shorts, jeans, or some sloppy pants and a tshirt or whatever they threw on. Ugly tennis shoes, etc. Whatever happened to making a good impression on your first date?

2006-09-27 04:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

i've seen this girl who looks stunning and i'm not sure if it would be the right thing to do!!!

2006-09-27 04:48:10 · 24 answers · asked by shimkel 2 in Friends

ok. I want to tell this guy I like him. But I dont actually want to tell him directly. Is there some small thing or things, that I can do to let him know. See, this is the thing, we're somewhat friends, and if he doesnt like me back, I dont want to make things akward. So I thought I'd just give him some sighns and let him approach me. give me some help !

2006-09-27 04:47:16 · 17 answers · asked by Blonde ambition 1 in Singles & Dating

im in the 9th grade right now, and i just wanted to hear what a guy would say about it.

2006-09-27 04:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kristina P 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out they were having an affiar while she stayed with me this past spring. We have 9 and 12 year old children, married 13 years, she won't answer my calls...

2006-09-27 04:46:44 · 33 answers · asked by Donna M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like the "grand entrance" part but I dont really like the song. What are some alternatives... i thought about "my heart will go on" w/o the singing... its done by harp- but that might be too slow/ and bad luck!?!?

2006-09-27 04:46:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-27 04:45:32 · 37 answers · asked by teresa 68 1 in Family