Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

I have been dating the same guy for 4 1/2 years now and I really love but I don't know if I could ever trust him again. Last year I met him a chicken place for just a few minutes while I was waiting on my food and from nowhere he said he had to go so he left and I thought nothing about it. He kissed me and a few seconds later a car was chasing behind him with 2 females in it honking at him. I recongnized the girl that was driving from work and then she turned around and got out the car to talk to me. She asked me if I was the guy girlfriend and I said yes and she said for how long and I told her for 3yrs. She said that she has been with him for 2 and he told her that he and I werent together anymore(we all work at the same hospital and they both work in the same department). When he and I 1st started talking I just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship and wasnt really looking for anyone especially at work and he was involved with someone else. not finish will send part 2

2006-09-14 07:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by tnek 2 in Singles & Dating

(they use to stay together) In fact I was so drunk lastnight I didn't even know she had came over. I am not sleeping with her. If I had slept with her last night why would I have called you to come over this morning? My heart wants to believe because I do love him but my mind know better. Does this story sound believable to anyone?

2006-09-14 07:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Singles & Dating

what would the sweetest thing that I could do to you or for you that would make you ask for more....?

2006-09-14 07:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by on2try 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if there is no other way of gettin in touch with them ?

2006-09-14 07:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Friends

Do you know me? I'm the guy who says good morning everyday. Maybe I'm the guy who opens the door for you every morning as you head to your office. I might be the guy at the school caferteria that you feel comfortable talking to for just a minute or two as we drop trash in the recptical. Maybe I'm a good friend of a friend that you feel totaly relaxed talking to about everything and anything. Perhaps when dates don't go right or promotions don't come your way or weekend friends just p*ss you off, you lean on my shoulder or you unload your problems. I listen and I listen some more. I have a soothing quality. I put you at ease because I'm different. I truly am a friend you trust with your deepest problems and darkest secrets. We have know each other forever, or perhaps it just seems that way.Your friends hate me. I'm not the life of the party, not a jock, not funny, the boss or rich and certainly nothing to look at and because of this we will be friends at best. I am in pain!

2006-09-14 06:59:42 · 16 answers · asked by jimmy 1 in Friends

2006-09-14 06:58:27 · 32 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

how to recognize obsessive behavior in lovers

2006-09-14 06:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by beautiful w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have only known her a short time and have no contact now, we stay in different countries, but my feelings are so strong i could swear she has no faults, and can honestly say she is the MOST GORGEOUS GIRL EVER! better looking than jennifer anniston and she is hot, i dont think i'll ever meet anyone as good as her all the girls i meet now just do not compare and i think about her every second of the day, she was a great mate as well as girlfriend, theres no chance of me finding where she is now, its the biggest mistake of my life to not see her again if i could turn back time i would move to be near her.

2006-09-14 06:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious!!

2006-09-14 06:55:28 · 17 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

And that when your with them you're just wearing a mask and they've never seen the real you? and if they did, they wouldn't understand it.

2006-09-14 06:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. Roxie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 06:54:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 06:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Family

We've been separated for 4 years and have already signed the papers, but he never made it to court to finalize the divorce, so I am still legally married. There has got to be a way to get this divorce....quick, cheap and easy.

2006-09-14 06:52:39 · 2 answers · asked by Layla W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking about leaving my wife and kids because the other day the two boys (ages 9 and 11) were playing video games and I wanted to play too, but the younger one said "NO!", I complained to my wife and she said that I'm too old to play video games. I think it's time that I leave my family and start a new life where I can play all the video games I want. Then my wife will have to get off her butt and deal with all the financial responsibility while having to take care our our 2 kids. haha that's kinda funny, evey time I think about it, it sounds better and better. Should I do it so I can play video games all day?

2006-09-14 06:51:14 · 47 answers · asked by J-DOG77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A lot of answers say if you want your spouse to change, make changes in how you are to your spouse. Since it is not logical (but common) to expect a one-for-one change ratio and to get angry when the spouse diesn't "live up to their end of the bargain", what is a good number of changes to make where you should expect some change in your spouse.
To be clear, let's say you want more sex, so you start being more attentive. If that doesn't work, you do more housework so-on and so-on.

2006-09-14 06:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 06:50:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just had the D & C procedure and for those of you who know it, know you cannot have sex for one to two weeks afterwards or until you see your doctor. So my husband and I have been experimenting with different ways of fulfilling sex. We have been having anal sex and one time I felt alittle cramp and I just want to know will the penis affect a sensitive cervix area at all? I am clueless as to how close everything is to each other.

2006-09-14 06:50:00 · 6 answers · asked by actresscye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what does your life consist of?what makes your life complete?is your life quality good?and if,why?

2006-09-14 06:49:45 · 9 answers · asked by enida k 1 in Friends

2006-09-14 06:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is everybody happy now that yahoo censors have remoed many humors questions and deleited accounts like their?

@sses were on fire and their pants were catching? Dont give me the crapola about kids accessing adult as marriage is for adults, as the moralist who lets their children play unattendied on a copmputerisn't practicing family values, its like handing a teenager a six pack and your car keys.Many of us looked here from work for a laugh, as really any idiot that would ask personal questions about their marriage has no respect for their spouses nor self, hell dr. phil and oprah are better for the simp[leton! Get a life, bring back Lorithio

2006-09-14 06:49:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a txt from my ex askin what time im workin tomorrow because he has the day off. I replied 9 and asked why and he said that he was just wonderin. I then asked him again and he still said that he was just wonderin. What did he want? ALSO i slept with him yesterday and he has a gf who he says he cares for alot. I told him i didnt feel guilty and that he had already forgotten about it which is fine by me, but the thing is if it meant nothing then why ask what i was doing tomorrow?

2006-09-14 06:48:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 06:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by Layla W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

More specifically, to men who have had this experience, what are the advantages of older women in bed over younger women.

2006-09-14 06:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by sarvar 1 in Singles & Dating

i have recently found out that my ex fiance has found a new lover and that new lover would just have to be my ex co worker and friend!! he tells everyone that she is his miracle. same thing he told me when we were together. but they gurl is a ***** i mean all she wants is money and that is exactly what he will give her...
you think he will ever realize that he has made a big mistake?

2006-09-14 06:47:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 06:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by bapz04 1 in Singles & Dating

The reason why I asked this is someone told me that women believe it or not can tell more about a man than he even knows about himself based on how she perceives him. An example, body language, way a man talks (confidence), shy, if he's boring or exciting to be around. I guess it's a vibe that they feel. Like they can tell if other females are attracted to you based on how she feels an attraction for you. She just knows if you're a ladies man or not...simply put! Also, females if a man were to fulfill your fantasy no matter what it may be? Not just anyman, can fulfill them...there has to be an attraction between you and him to even allow this to happen do you agree? In other words, if I said I'll fulfill your fantasy but you have no attraction for me, you wouldn't want me to fulfill it, you'd prefer another guy with the right attraction correct? Anyway, tell me how your opinion on all this, it can be long or short answers. I'm all ears! I like hearing what the females have to say too!

2006-09-14 06:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My children have been handed to thier father wrongfully and he then took them to his parents and dropped them off. I can not do anything about it until I can get someone to hear me from the system.

2006-09-14 06:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I notice that most women go back out with their ex's. when the reason why the broke up was because he cheated why is that?

2006-09-14 06:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Singles & Dating

I've confronted him before and he denys it. He also hides everything he does concerning sex.

2006-09-14 06:46:34 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend I have known through school has told me she is leaving her husband for her brother inlaw. she has two young boys and He has older children, 2 girls one boy in the teen years.

She says they have both confessed how unhappy they both are, both couples have gone to marriage counselling and to no avail they both say that their partners are not responding and both are past the point of no return. She says thoughout the years they have both had the same interests, etc. My question is how does this affect a family. They plan on getting married so each others kids are at the moment nieces and nephews, and I'M sure when the family finds out it is going to be really hard on them.

They both have the attitude that they have a rigtht to be happy and the family will either accept or they wont and that will be a bridge they both have to cross.

What are your thoughts on the family tangle and the kids?

2006-09-14 06:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by jessygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce