Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

im almost 21 but i really feel older than george bush
i think im gonna finish college when im 24 or 25 .. then i dont know when im getting married !! .. i hate this age its so between things
whats the best to get married?
and how many kids u all got? or want to have

2006-09-14 07:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 10 years. I was a stay at home mom for 3 because my daughter was sickly(better now). In Jan06 I went back to work making 40K. My hubby is a owner/operator truck driver and we have two other trucks we own and employ the guys through a company. Well, medical insur. with his company is crazy expensive. So it comes out of my check @ 400 on 1st and 15th for our two kids and him. Well , he makes anywhere from 4,000 to 13,000 a week (not kidding) but he has to pay the other two guys 45% of whatever they bring in on the truck! So if one of them makes 2,500 they get 45%. He is pissed at me because he says I don't pay enough bills. I pay for the kids lunch etc. and groceries and my cell and credit cards. Our monthly bills are about 4,000. I feel me paying 800 a month in insurance is a bill in itself! I would be broke if I continued to pay 500 in bills which is what I was paying before insurance started coming out! Now I pay 1 bill a pay period averaging 120 to 150. HELP

2006-09-14 07:25:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been living together for 3 months I am only 17 and he is 23 well i love him but then I want to meet new guys I just met this guy and I think am starting to like him but guess what he also lives with his girlfriend and he is only 18. Should I continue talking to him or not????//what should I do?

2006-09-14 07:24:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl I'm getting to know, she was greeted me by gently brushing her hand over my shoulder, same as when she was leaving. Does this mean she likes me and has increasing affection for me? Or, is she just getting more used to me, do just regular friends do this too? This is the first time she's voluntarily touched me. What do you think, explain more in depth and share other thoughts. Thanks.

2006-09-14 07:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Singles & Dating

I've locked her in the house for 3 days.... Im getting desperate.....

2006-09-14 07:22:20 · 19 answers · asked by tkocp07 1 in Singles & Dating

that senario happened to a girlfriend of mine and she is just caught up about it. i already told her what to do but she says that my answer is not enough to help her now.

2006-09-14 07:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by monique c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 07:20:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a 25 year old Indian girl. I work full time and am doing a part time MBA course at work. I live at home and my parents wont let me move out! I have to face emotional abuse and guilt from them when Im at home. I dont have any friends where I live.

I was speaking to one friend (old college friend - she nows lives 100 miles away from me) at 11pm last night. My parents must have heard me talking on the phone and my mum came in all angry and told me to get off the phone. I heard my dad bickering all angry to my mum afterwards. This got me depressed and I cried. They dont care as long as I dont have friends.

I never go out. only into town to shop for clothes and stuff. I work 9-5, mon -fri. I come straight home after work.

My life is so depressing and I feel so lonely. I live on the net everyday I come home...

Is there anyone who understand what Im going through.....? :*(

2006-09-14 07:20:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am going to a good university as a transfer student from a jr. community college, have my bf that goes here as well which is a computer science person, and i have everything that every student wants: a nice dorm, a paid meal plan by mommy and daddy, extra cash on the side, you name it. but for some reason i feel as though i cannot keep up in most of my classes! i am the kind of person who is really driven and wants everything really bad but now it seems that no matter how bad i want something i might not get it! i have a dillema or staying up too late to late to study then maybe missing a class- it has happened 2 times but it scares me!-eating chocolate at midnight, penutbutter, and other junkfoods as well as over working my body because of stress. i have so many deadlines within the next 2 weeks that i need to work over time and have no time for myself. i am scared that somewhere along the way i will lose my bf as well as myself! i dont need all A's. someone who can give me advice?

2006-09-14 07:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family

2006-09-14 07:19:56 · 9 answers · asked by NONE 2 in Singles & Dating

Went out to party it was my birthday and i woke up with my bestfriends boyfriend. I dont remeber much about what happened that night and to make matters worse i live with her boyfriend , two other guy friends from high school since i have always been a tom boy and her. I am know almost 5 months and starting to show and dont know what to do and this is killing me. I now it has to be his because before this i had not had sex in over a year!We agreed never to tell my best friend of what happened. How do i tell him i am pregnant?

2006-09-14 07:19:28 · 21 answers · asked by Chrissy s 1 in Friends

2006-09-14 07:18:30 · 3 answers · asked by sparklybrighteyes 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend moved into a new apartment and he asked me to move in with him next month. I agreed and we planned on me bringing stuff up this weekend.

The past few days, he has been calling me and his cell phone keeps dropping the call. Rather than go somewhere else where he can call from a real phone, he gives up or doesn't call back. But when we do talk, he's in an unusually good mood (why would he be happy if we haven't talked?)

He was on his way to work this morning and he called me to remind me to bring up something. He then asked what I was doing today and he reminded me to pack the car with the stuff. The phone cut out and he didn't call back. I thought he would have at least called when he got to work.

Should I continue with the plan and pack the car? Or should I just say forget it? Are guys really content with only talking to their girlfriend for 5 minutes a day?

2006-09-14 07:18:28 · 23 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

thanks for helping

2006-09-14 07:18:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Singles & Dating

you know, like how they complain that men's eyes drift down to their cleavage?

How did that make you feel? Did you ever confront a girl for doing that?

2006-09-14 07:16:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so how did you handle it? Did you work things out? Was sex ever the same? How long did it take you to heal and to be able to trust again? My wife cheated on me, and im needing advice from those who have been through it. Thanks

2006-09-14 07:16:16 · 27 answers · asked by ernie-h-in-the-place 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Years of age :) honest answers only please.

2006-09-14 07:16:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-14 07:15:46 · 5 answers · asked by brittany s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it because of the opposite sex or is it something in thier own sex that causes this? Like perception?

2006-09-14 07:14:53 · 16 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Contuned message from part 1
We started kicking strong and we both started having deep feelings for eachother. I told him how I felt and told him that I can longer share him. Afew months after I said that he told me him and his girl broke up because they argued too much. He always gave me the time that I needed when I wanted it so there was never really any reason for me to complain. He always told me that he stayed at home with his mom which I never beleived because I am not stupid been cheated on before so I know the all the signs. Anyway the girl told me that he was trying to get her to break up with her man because he told her he loved her and she told him that she wasnt going to do that for him. Alot of things she said I beleived but some I didnt like she said everyone at work kept telling her that he was still with him and he was denying it I told her you see me everyday you should have asked me she also sees me with him and never said a thing. not done will send part 3

2006-09-14 07:13:45 · 2 answers · asked by tnek 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u think ?

personaly im not gay but i dont see god actually striking down any one who is on a daily basis - i say live and let live

2006-09-14 07:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by ozzysheeplover 3 in Singles & Dating

I could use some tips and advice. What works for you? Have you ever had a lot of trouble, if so how did you teach yourself or what did you do to solve it?

2006-09-14 07:11:01 · 0 answers · asked by lc 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 07:10:08 · 13 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

im currently very attracted to my sisters ex..she hasn't been with him for quite sometime now but is there something wrong with it especially since hes almost 2 years younger than me? also, how should i break the news to my sister that i have feelings for him?

2006-09-14 07:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but you had a cat and they didn't like cats, how would you compromise?

2006-09-14 07:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by M D 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

would any one like to be my friend if you do please email me at orachelo08@yahoo.com
ineed a friend plzzzzzzzz

2006-09-14 07:08:21 · 7 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Friends

I am going to buy a mall gift certificate for my cousin's wedding gift. She lives in a city 1.5 hrs away and we don't see each other much. We don't even really know each other that well since I saw her 3 times in the past 10 years, and maybe once a year growing up.
How much should I give her? I am thinking between $35 - $50. How much would you give if it was your cousin.

2006-09-14 07:08:03 · 24 answers · asked by hello 6 in Weddings

I've been married for about 5 years, recently, I have found evidence of my husband becoming a little to friendly with a woman at work. I have found excessive phone call on the cell phone bill and I also overheard a conversation between the two of them. I have confronted my husband about the situation and we addressed our differences. At this point I'm not 100% sure that the flirting or whatever has ended. I have no evidence of otherwise but my intuitions is getting the best of me. Anyway, I am considering getting little more acquainted with someone that experssed intrest in a friendship with no strings attached of course. (sex is not an option). I know this can be dangerous but why should my husband have all the fun!! This would be totally out of character for me. I pride myself in being a faithful, committed partner.

2006-09-14 07:07:54 · 7 answers · asked by luvjoi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just called me, he is out of town on business. He used to work with a girl who I think had the hots for him, she would come into his office and sit and talk alot! He would tell me about , so I wasn't too worried. She ended up getting fired, so I havent' given her much thought lately. He just now called and told me she called him yesterday "just to say hi". I know she has the hots for him, I'm not sure what he thinks about her. At one point he asked me to go with him to a bbq she had invited him to at her house, so I thought, good sign. He also told me she called, and I guess he didn't have to tell me, so should I be worried. The guy is a filrt, he says she is not his type, and I know he enjoyed the attention, like any man would. what do y'all think? (We didn't go to the bbq due to a brief break-up so I haven't met her.) But I figure he really didn't even have to tell me about the bbq if he didn't want to. He says he thinks she has the hots for him too....any advice?

2006-09-14 07:06:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jo G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 07:06:48 · 1 answers · asked by dr_papamika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships