Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

are woman able to decern between genuine compliments and pick up lines? or is this where the so called 6th sense or intuition comes into play?

2006-09-14 09:40:03 · 35 answers · asked by CHARLIE 3 in Singles & Dating

before me & my bf were officially together, we would talk on the phone for hrs, hang out almost every night.. we were each others best friends who happened to like each other.

in that time (which was a year ago) my bf slept with a mutual friend of ours (more his friend than mine). he never told me & kept it a secret for a year.. i found out from the girl he slept w/

he tells me now that he didnt tell me bc at the time we werent going out & although he liked me then, he had had a lot of flirty things in the past that never developed into anything further.. he assumed i was "out of his league" & figured i would never go for him..so he got action where he could

it really bothers me that 1) he hooked up with a girl A MONTH before we started OFFICIALLY dating even though we were togetherishh & 2) he never intended to tell me!

is this cheating? or was he justified to do what he did?

2006-09-14 09:39:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and i need somewhere that is relaxing, and fun! We need to spend time together and have fun! I am willing to go anywhere, just to get away ! Not to expencive ! Does any one have any ideas

2006-09-14 09:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by bdmrplemons 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem I am 20 yr's old, and during sex I don't orgasm. Why can't I? what can i try? is there a different position that would help? I orgasm during oral sex, but not during sex. Help?? it's frustrating!

2006-09-14 09:39:13 · 1 answers · asked by angel1986 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:38:54 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

i have a boyfriend already.

2006-09-14 09:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by lilmama 1 in Singles & Dating

I think sexy would be a miniskirt or a tight short dress,
pantyhose, and heels. I have friends who work for hooters
and they love wearing pantyhose and they like the look and feel
of them, yet other women say they donot like waering pantyhose.
Are these girls just being lazy?

2006-09-14 09:37:34 · 34 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

she has a medical condition which causes low sex drive (we've had sex five or six times this year so far). Now she's had another problem (cancer - cured thank god) which had led to her being on medication whose side effect is...low sex drive. She'll be on this for five years, by which time I'll be 38, she'll be 45. I suspect my sex life is over. I still love her very much, and don't want to end up doing something stupid, or being resentful - anyone got any good ideas?

2006-09-14 09:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sculptor 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK guys this is bugging me.

If you know me, you know I'm dating a young Japanese guy.

And he hasn't been in contact w/me for 2 weeks.

I asked why and he said he has a problem with his family & me. He wouldn't tell me what it was.

I figure it's one of two things:

-They're racist b1tches and hate Americans like me, so they don't want us to be together

-They're close minded b1tches who are mad because I'm almost 8 years older than him. I'm 23 and he's about 15.

HELP? What do you think is the rason? OR could they be nyother one?

2006-09-14 09:37:04 · 19 answers · asked by Silky Blonde Afro Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

what if im an illegal immigrant?like i overstayed here and i got married during my stay here?

2006-09-14 09:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by jc_pox09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Growing up, for me these were the bases: First - Kissing; second - up the shirt; Third - "finger work"; Home run - intercourse.

What are the new bases?

2006-09-14 09:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:36:08 · 16 answers · asked by budget strapped 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked if he liked me and he said that I was sick, ugly and disgusting and I'm not! So what should I do about this please?

2006-09-14 09:35:43 · 36 answers · asked by princess 1 in Friends

just fed up with scams and women wanting money,wheres the ordinary girls.

2006-09-14 09:34:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

looking 4 advice

2006-09-14 09:34:33 · 17 answers · asked by rayray17 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

can you ever fall in love with someone who you think is unattractive ??????? plz share experiences if any

2006-09-14 09:34:07 · 21 answers · asked by la chula805 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to get a divorce for 5 months now. When we went to a temorary hearing, my husband got visitation rights but child support has been held in abeyance. I need money to support my child. My child still has needs no matter how he and I feel about each other. He has never given a lot for her support but every little bit would help.

2006-09-14 09:34:00 · 3 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 09:33:47 · 10 answers · asked by camachomexican 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are they your ex then if you want them sooo badly??? Stop stringing along somebody else

2006-09-14 09:33:46 · 5 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 09:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:32:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You have a small tiff and your guy steps off the path to take a leak on a fence...... DO you tell him to be carefuf because the fence is electric or keep on walking and let fate take its course ????

2006-09-14 09:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 09:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems that after 3 years of riding the bus my son is suddenly a trouble maker, He told me the driver was rude and yells alot and she was a bit rude to me when she was talking. SO how do I make him behave anyhow I do not have the resources to drive him to and from school everyday.

2006-09-14 09:32:07 · 16 answers · asked by Shadow Kat 6 in Family

he won't buy me a airline ticket. We both work but he makes twice as much as I do. The ticket cost about $500. bucks. He said I should buy my own. His family expects me to be there as well, but they don't know that I can't afford the ticket. I told him I wouldn't be able to go then and he said "OK" Does it sound as if he really cares whether I go or not?? I didn't think so, but the rest of his family won't understand. We keep separate accounts for now. What do you think, should I try to save up the money? Or not go?

2006-09-14 09:32:02 · 16 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Family

I don't have a car and can't afford one anytime in the future. I don't really have a problem with it though as I walk or take public transport and live near most of the stuff I need. However, when people , especially potential dates hear that I don't have a car, they start giving suggestions on where I can get a good deal or financing, etc. The simple fact is that I cannot afford a car and my credit is overcharged and not good so financing is out. I can't afford any payments or insurance either. Getting a car is out for me and not really an issue in my life but I keep getting people trying to pressure me into buying one or trying to get me to buy a friends car. I don't want to be rude to them as they are only trying to help, but how do I tell them, I can't afford any car?

2006-09-14 09:31:20 · 7 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Friends

My wife has just come home from work (9.00pm) and now she is cooking my dinner, if she had prepared the meal before she went to work this morning she would have only had to heat it and I could have had it by now, unorganised.... are all women like this ?

2006-09-14 09:31:15 · 56 answers · asked by banditblue1200 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well i met my ex like 9 months ago and we fell in love. It was going great. However like a week ago he told me that he felt like betraying me and he feels guilty by going out with me cuz he still cares about his ex who lives in texas (they are still in contact, but see they went out 4 2 weeks and it was his first girlfriend but then she moved. this all happened in november). and i am here ****** caring for him 24/7 and he appreciates it but doesnt realize that i feel used u know. And hes like yea, we'll stay close friends but he still wants the physical **** from me...and i cant take it cuz it hurts me. So i told him off that i dont want any physical **** so hes like okay thats fine. but like from then he would never call but i would call him. So after sunday i stopped calling him and he has not called me yet. he said like he trust me soo much, but he acts this way. We're in the same friends circle and we have this cookout on sunday before college starts so we r all meeting up.plz help

2006-09-14 09:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetie928 1 in Singles & Dating