Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

2006-09-14 10:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

In my case...
My ex husband and I were living with his grandmother because the sonofabitch couldn't hold down a job and support our two kids right. One night, while he actually was working, he comes home and notifies me that he's moving in one of his "co-workers". The poor thing was abused by her current boyfriend Blah Blah and had no where to go (yeah right). I told him that was not going to happen and I gave him a choice...
Either she does not move in or My children and myslef move out.
Well I'm divorced now so you guess his choice. I left the house that night and went to stay with his aunt, walked into the grandma's house the next morning and caught them in bed together with my 3yr and 1yr babies in the room next door. I was divorced 2wks later under the grounds of adultry. Having his grandmother and aunt testify in court on my behalf didn't help his situation any. 10 pnts. to the person who can beat that!
What kind of person would throw that right in their spouse's face?

2006-09-14 10:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-14 10:15:14 · 23 answers · asked by oh baby 3 in Singles & Dating

She is 51 Iam 41 and it is weird she does not care to hardly ever have sex anymore. We have been married 11 years and she is not the type to cheat but I am starting to wonder??

2006-09-14 10:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First off. I am 16 year old guy, almost 17. Second... I am having these feelings towards another guy in my class; first gay feelings I have ever felt. I was fine tell I first layed eyes on him; it is like he made the gay inside of me come out. Now I am having feelings towards other guys and my intrests in girls has been slowly fading (Not to mention stress is constantly bulding inside from holding these feelings inside, my family is hardcore christian and is against gays, and my friends crack jokes about them all the time) I don't talk to this guy, but I alwayse do stare at him; occasionaly he looks back but quickly looks away. I want to know if there is any 'non' creepy way to approach him?

2006-09-14 10:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jared J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 10:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by snoopdog 1 in Friends

Has anyone had a child who refused to do "big jobs on the loo?" We have tried treats if the child did a "big job" on the loo but this is no help does nayone have any answers help!

2006-09-14 10:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by Wim 2 in Family

Bill and Ted and I and tried to rescue some historical babes from marrying some royal ugly dudes. But we were wondering, who would you want to date if you could travel back in time and pick up anybody, and why?

If there's an even number of answers, I'll pick the sweetest, if it's an odd number, I'll pick the sexiest. Have fun.

2006-09-14 10:13:51 · 17 answers · asked by Wyld Stallyns 4 in Singles & Dating

who is it?

2006-09-14 10:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship and we have been dating for two months now and we have not had sex yet i mean i dont want to rush him but i have needs you know so what is a girl to do

2006-09-14 10:12:41 · 11 answers · asked by mary k 1 in Friends

I am 13 years old,almost 14.I was adopted young is all I know.
Supposedly,when my birth mother was pregnant with me,my birth father died,which is true he really did.I didn't know all my life I was adopted in fact I haven't known that long at all!Well my real mom,I have known her as my cousin in the family.She's like a second cousin to my adoptive-dad.So I really am related to them.Nobody,has yet told me what age I was adopted at,but I can remember many things.I love my adoptive parents.But the problem is I haven't always been so close to my "was cousin..now mom".I mean I see her every now and then.Well just last week I saw her again,at my aunt's funeral.And the whole time her and I talked trying to get to remember each other better.I really want to be closer to her so bad! I miss her everday,do you think if my adoptive parents say it's ok it's a good idea to spend the summer with her? Any ideas on things to do,stuff like that?

2006-09-14 10:12:36 · 1 answers · asked by PolishChikka 1 in Family

I have pictures and text messages that my ex-boyfriend sent me on my cell phone, and I want to delete them, but I also want to hold on to them. I don't know why I'd want to keep them, because we didn't have a good relationship. I know this is a stupid question, but I'd like the opinions of others.

2006-09-14 10:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a young man named Lenny Bernhart. It's been a while since we last talked and I was concerned about him because he had injured himself. I was just looking for anybody who knew him or knew of him because I just wanted to drop him a few lines to ask how he is doing now. Kinda shoot the breeze, he was my best friend in high school and I miss talking to him. We could talk about anything and everything. I don't have that with many people, so any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

2006-09-14 10:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by scifichik61306 2 in Friends

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and know the sex is just boring what should i do

2006-09-14 10:12:09 · 28 answers · asked by hotpinkangel_9 1 in Singles & Dating

This happened 3 wks ago, my sister (27 yrs old) mouthed off at our mother and my mom did the 4 finger slap across the cheek...my sister balled up a fist pounded her in the head and grabbed her head and banged it into the refrigerator 6-7 times or so...kicked her, had her knee in her back, aggravating a previous injury and her two children (9 and 6) were helping her beat her. It got broken up and the 9-yr old called the police. Neither pressed charges...my mom doesn't want anything to do with her or her two kids and I don't either, but my mom is still in pretty bad shape. We think she had a stroke and that she has broken ribs, which may be pressing on her lungs...we think she may be getting pnuemonia. My mother doesn't believe in drs, never has and refuses to go. My sister feels as though it doesn't concern me, and I am at witts end on what to do...Should I forgive my sister and have a relationship or just write her off? I don't even know what to say to her.

2006-09-14 10:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by Peachz 2 in Family

2006-09-14 10:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i REALLY like someone, now i'm not sure if 11 is the right age for a girlfriend, but before i moved some people have had dates, or asked out but when i moved, nada, so now i wonder, just answer the question.

2006-09-14 10:11:40 · 1 answers · asked by Ian H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 10:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by meaney 1 in Singles & Dating

...well its only happened twice, but how can i prevent this!?

Even when we talk like everyone else, and joke and laugh etc, i start to like them more....grrr!

2006-09-14 10:10:31 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

i would like to know about sex and the safes and moves of it. im 19 so i think that im old enough. i have never tried it but im curious. what should i do. what do the readers of this like their mates to do while having sex???

2006-09-14 10:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a problem latley with people noticing my chest! I was talking to a guy the other day and he was talking about my chest and starring at my chest, then i had a group of guys (in which i know) yell "David said you have huge boobs"
My last problem with this guy i know fairly well, is always hitting my chest with something, one day a water bottle, the next day his hand.

The thing is i know these guys are joking so dont say "file for sexual harresment" i understand what they are doing is not appropriate. What should i do (one of the guys i like) and i dont want him to stop talking to me either..

If you have any ideas on why they are suddenly so observant, or how to get this to stop let me know! thanks =]]

2006-09-14 10:09:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in a relationship and we have been dating for two months now and i think i love him i care for him alot i mean i do anything for him. but for me it is hard to show love i show that kind of love like when you in first grade when you hit the guy and run thats me
so that is why i ask how do you know when your in love

2006-09-14 10:09:34 · 3 answers · asked by mary k 1 in Friends

2006-09-14 10:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by cdrfish7 1 in Singles & Dating

how does one escape the trappings of "unrequited love"? (well.. to be honest, it would be closer to "unrequited strong interest")

2006-09-14 10:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by classy_gui 2 in Singles & Dating

but she keeps bugging me. Guys, what should I do? Help!

2006-09-14 10:06:34 · 62 answers · asked by cdrfish7 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend an I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. We have both known that we want to get married and we have talked about it since about 1 year being together. The problem is, I get very depressed sometimes about my life. Mostly it is about not being married. He says that he doesn't want to get married when I obviously have other issues that need to be worked on through counseling. I don't think this is fair. I think he should want to be with me with or without the depression. What do others think I should do?

2006-09-14 10:06:29 · 13 answers · asked by Cheeseball123 2 in Singles & Dating

i will like to know what i could do so that my man could feel better when is whit me

2006-09-14 10:05:26 · 10 answers · asked by loveyoucrisann@yahoo.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to apologize to her for joining the group insulting her, not protecting her from verbal barbs and assorted insults that were being hurled at her in the classroom. It was 32 years ago but it still bugs me.I am 44 years old now.

2006-09-14 10:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by robert s 5 in Friends

I have no problem paying back the money which was supposably 13,000 dollars my problem is this they are charging me 17,000 dollars in intrest which brings the total to 30,000 dollars and the intrest keeps adding up at like 20% of the remainder of what i owe at the end of each year this is highway robbery!!!!! worse than a loan shark would charge!! how can they get away with this? i have been paying them back for 20 yrs now I have payed my child support and don't owe my ex any more money . my son is 25yrs old is there any way Ican put a stop to this highway robbery ? or at least stop the intrest from continuing please help me . I just don,t feel I should have to pay so much morein intrest than she got from them in the first place I,m not trying to get out of paying the money back I just don,t think I should have to pay so much more than what they gave her in the first place please help if you can

2006-09-14 10:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by tazmatic1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible to be best friends with a member of the opposite sex?
What if they are both married? Does that change anything?

2006-09-14 10:04:27 · 30 answers · asked by texasgirl5454312 6 in Marriage & Divorce