Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

Usually is us as wife's, but sometimes the husband ....
But I know several friends that take away all the pay check from the husband & spend the money shopping for her or kids & the husband only keeps $20 for gas $10 to spend until next pay check ...Is this fair ????
If both husband & wife work then the money should be spend because is both $$$ to use on house payment or rent & house bills & to spend for the family needs... I'm incharged at home of the bills, groceries, clothes, & to save money too!!! & my hubby has access to a credit card for emergencies but we both share our $$$ for family needs as it should be .... Or how does it has to be, who needs to be handle the $$$$ & should husband keep only certain $$$ for better control ???

2006-09-14 11:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what should I do...Its not like I flirt with these guys they introduce themselves and I say hey my name is so and so nice to meet you..and I usually answer whatever other question they ask after that...I don't want to be rude and say go away so I just let them talk and then leave its not like I give them my number and say call me...what should i do?

2006-09-14 11:49:51 · 2 answers · asked by soulfullilangel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 11:48:56 · 14 answers · asked by kimbriang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 11:48:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What I mean by 'forced' is my wife and I only got married because she got pregnant. Me, feeling the best thing to do was to marry and take care of her and my child. This was over 13 years ago. Now we constantly bicker and argue but because of my deep family values I stuck it out for the sake of my child. The thought of another man raising my child makes me cringe. Now I am at the end of my rope. We constantly bicker but we're never physical. Just yelling like everyone else.

I feel like putting up w/ this is eating me alive. I don't know what to do. My friends all say that staying together for the sake of the child is the absolute worse thing you can do.

2006-09-14 11:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What's your man pet peeve on the "assumption" meter?

2006-09-14 11:47:18 · 15 answers · asked by * Deep Thought * 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a guy at my school that i like but i dont know if he likes me.

2006-09-14 11:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

god love never fades and i think he chose it that way to teach us love is eternal so how in the world can married people or couples love each other today and be out of love tommorrow i have read sum crazy questions from couples for example if he cant get it up how do i divorce him or i am gonna divorce her since we not having sex people i know certain things in relationships are difficult and make you unhappy but i dare you to look in the mirror and say u never upset god but he has stood by you and loved you when you didnt deserve it so why cant we do that for our mates yes i will admit you open ypourselves up for heartache and to be stepped on but are we better than the top man himself

2006-09-14 11:46:30 · 4 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short my younger brother(22yrs old) got jumped for his I Pod and he asked me to help him get it back or at least get the guys back......he was smacked around pretty good but not seriuosly hurt.

My wife wants to just let the cops handle it but I cant do that. She is my wife and I understand she has a right to voice her opinion but he is my brother and is asking for my help so I feel obligated.

This is causing a problem between us because she thinks that I should be past the days of fighting and I agree but if you beat on ANYONE in my family then all the rules go out the door.

How can I make her understand my side?
To me there isnt even an option as to what i should do?

2006-09-14 11:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a dance that's coming up at my school. I really like 2 guys and i think they might like me. I don't know which one to ask. any suggestions?

2006-09-14 11:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by sabine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and ! have been together a little over a year and we have a great relationship..we see each other almost every day and hes very close with my family..I have no reason to break up with him, however, I have a trust issue with him going away. He's offered for me to come with him but that's not an option. He says he'll pay for me to come visit him also...I feel that he may cheat whether we remain together or not. I feel this is a time where we should decide if we really love each other or not and if we are meant for each other we'll remain in contact and stay together when he comes back. However, I do not want to be waiting around while he's "soiling his royal oats" to come back to me. I don't trust the situation and I'd rather us take a break so that it can be accepted for both of us to equally do whatever we please instead of just him.
When I suggested this he got upset and didn't want it. What should I do?

2006-09-14 11:45:04 · 15 answers · asked by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 in Singles & Dating

cherries or strawberries?
bottom or top?
lights on or off?
day or night?
fast and hard or slow and easy?

2006-09-14 11:44:46 · 33 answers · asked by kourtney j 2 in Singles & Dating

My step-dad use to be really cool, then he just changed. He's always pissy and hateful, and it's always TOWARD ME. My mom has talked to him about it, but he won't stop. He just ignores me, even when I try to ask him about it. How do I deal? I leave in a year for college though - Thank God!

2006-09-14 11:43:04 · 18 answers · asked by ashleyuvjra 3 in Family

I'm 14......140 pounds....5'10"....

im fast....my 40 yard dash is 4.65....

i can get to the ball pretty fast...my catching abilities are not amazing but getting better....my tackling is getting better but its not yet good, i can run through tackles, i follow my blocking pretty well... i can cover people well...i can play zone very well, and i can cover wide recievers good as well.

remember i am 14....so a 4.65 40 yd. dash is pretty good.

what position should i play?

2006-09-14 11:42:54 · 14 answers · asked by julean33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is one girl who is really into sports and sorta hot, and there is one girl who isn't really into sports and is reallly hot. I like both and i like sports so which one should ask out?

2006-09-14 11:42:37 · 14 answers · asked by Head Master 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up about two years ago and he ended up going over seas and every time he came home he would try and get a hold of me but it wouldnt be until the day before he had to go back.. Anyways, I moved out of state about a year ago and lost complete contact with him and i moved back and got a hold of him about a week ago and we went out to dinner to catch up and thats when i found out he had tried looking me up when i got home but couldnt find me and i also found out he's been in a relationship for about a month now.. I guess what i want to know is why would he want to meet up if he had a girlfriend and his life is sooo good right now?...
Plus the whole time at dinner all he could do was talk about how much muscle he has and all the new things he was able to buy with his money.. why would he do that?..

2006-09-14 11:41:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, i get that shes mine. She understands more than most that its not her i dont trust. Or that its not that i dont trust myself. Shes not just my girlfriend, marriage is coming into the pcture. i want us to be able to go out and have a good time without me tearing somebody apart for "disrespecting" either of us. This is a very hard thing for me to deal with. we love eachother very much and shes not asking me to change but i want to for her.

2006-09-14 11:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by Dallasjud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just how?....i try to get this kid to nitice me but he dont

2006-09-14 11:40:08 · 7 answers · asked by boobear123293 1 in Friends

You know, the kind that feels that every little sugestion you make, or when you want your opinion to be valid too, get all defensive and acuse you of trying to control them...and even worse, if they feel with every right to tell you what's right and what not for you. If you did, how do you cope? is there hope for the relationship?

2006-09-14 11:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this guy at my school (we're in a catholic highschool) who i used to have a really big crush on. he found out, and everytime he walked past me he would touch my butt and act like it wasn;t him. it got to the point of being really weird, so i started ignoring him. i told him to stop every time, completely seriously. today i was walking down the hall to go to the bathroom, and he came and pushed me in a closet with him. i was pounding of the door and on him to let me out, yelling and yelling but no one came and he wouldn't let me out. then right then and there, he started taking his pants off and touching himself in front of me. everytime he tried to touch me i would hit him really hard, so he gave up that. he just did that the whole time, jacked off in front of me. and then he was done, and he let me out.


i don't know how i'm going to explain this to anyone if i try to report him, it's just so weird
is there any hotlines i could call?
i feel sick and disgusted.

2006-09-14 11:39:48 · 36 answers · asked by jenny lou 1 in Singles & Dating

specially to your first love

2006-09-14 11:39:35 · 7 answers · asked by romartabanao 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 11:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

but he has a girl and their on a brake,the thing is i know he likes me to what should i do????????????

2006-09-14 11:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by shy 1 in Singles & Dating

Could i find info on line about MY case???

2006-09-14 11:38:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been goin out with my boyfriend for about 8 months and now we started high school and this girl likes him alot and wont stop talkin to him and stuff. and shes talkin to my best friend tellin her to tell him to break up with me. and idk wut to do cuz shes driving me nuts. she flirts with him like crazy and i dont no if he flirts but he talks to her kinda alot .... idk... :(

2006-09-14 11:38:08 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i am 6 months pregnant and lately my bfs friends have been inviting him out and he wont ask me if he can go he just goes. I didnt think it was fair cuz i have to stay home and wait until he calls me. Also we fight because he hides his best friend from me, he hides that he talks to her and well i hate it because they used to like each other and he says he loves me. I had to give up my friends for him but he wont. What do i do? Or what can i tell him? Please i need to know if you think that i am trying to control him? Or do i have a say in this too?

2006-09-14 11:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Since being on yahoo for 3 weeks now i cannot get into yahoo personal. All it tells me is tha page cannot be found. Why? I get e-mails saying that people are leaving me messages. but I cant check them.

2006-09-14 11:37:16 · 1 answers · asked by chris r 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy have 4 to 5 orgasem in one evening he feel very draied ,is it ture for girls to the same extend

2006-09-14 11:37:09 · 19 answers · asked by rastgoo_2 2 in Singles & Dating

...that you may be a huge disappointment? That maybe you're not half as smart or funny as the person you really care about thinks you are? That perhaps you're not attractive enough or worthy of their attention or affection?...

2006-09-14 11:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by CC...x 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 11:36:46 · 16 answers · asked by cn56 2 in Marriage & Divorce