My boyfriend and I have will have been together 2 years this Christmas. We're 19 and 21. It's always been an open discussion that we DO want to get married. But our idea has always been to get married when we finish college. This will take at the LEAST 2 years for both of us to be finished. We live together and have a cat together and pretty much act like we are married. I've been seriously considering getting married earlier than after school... like next summer. I've thought about it a lot. I asked him if he has ever thought about it, he said he has, but always decides against it because he is not ready, we cant afford it and don't have time due to school. i told him that i know we can afford it (we honestly can) and if we do it in the summer, we would have plenty of time. He still says he is just not ready. I don't get it! We LIVE together! Whats the difference in doing what we do now, and getting married?? He ACTS like he is ready, but says he is not. And we are 100% happy. Help?
2007-09-29
04:17:32
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