I was in a relationship for almost 1-1/2 yrs that has very recently ended (he ended it after a very minor fight). I tried to end the relationship prior to this, but he told me that we could make it through anything and that he could not live without me, etc. I know in my head that this is for the best, but my heart is so in love with him. I want to know why he lied to me for so long. I can't seem to resist the urges to txt or email him, not because I am "stalking" him, but because I want to understand why he changed his mind/if all of the words he told me really were just lies. I have only had one other break up that was really bad, a 3-1/2 yr relationship, and I don't like how I dealt with the pain from that, I turned to alcohol and became someone I couldn't stand for 2 yrs. I don't have any friends to turn to, he didn't like any of my friends, so we lost touch. I still have my best friend who is now married, so it's hard to go to her for support. Any ideas on how to move on?
2007-01-03
01:07:07
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Marriage & Divorce