what would you do if you are in my situation????
My husband was divorced for 3 years before I met him his ex-wife left him for another man and she left their two kids with him, now they are grown up and the other one is living with him she’s 18 years old, We are married and living together with his daughter for a year now, his daughter was only close to her father and resent her mother, before I move in with them she wrote me a letter that “she will do anything for me, she can’t wait to see me” since her father and I met 8000 miles away and his daughter and I only met her after we got married and move from my country to their country. At first she was ok with me and to everything, I have done everything to her take care of her when she was sick and be there for her and after about two months, she started to change when she started getting close to her mother, she just didn’t change to me but to her father as well, there is no quite days in our house in every little thing she started to moan things to her father shouting, telling him he is stingy and, doesn’t do anything about her when in fairness to my husband he does take care of her daughter , buy things to his daughter, he bought her a car but his daughter never appreciate everything my husband do for her, and then she started being funny with me, we went to the party and we were there sitting in front at each other and she started throwing peanuts on my face, pop a party popper on my face and I was just patient because I don’t want an argument and in the middle of the party when I just got back from the toilet and when I was about to sit down she pulled the chair from underneath that make me fall to the floor she started laughing and I told her it wasn’t funny at all and she started telling me “ok bring it on, bring it on, stuff it with you”, I was really upset I just told my husband to take us home and when we get home my husband told her off that the things she did was out of control and she started crying and telling her dad that it was just a joke, she does things to me that I can’t carry on like messing all her things every time I clean, she doesn’t wash the dishes and let me wash it, she use a bunch of towels everyday when I was the one who is washing, she lost my dog before I got back from America when she was supposed to be looking after it and never even say sorry and explain how did the dog got lost, I have tried to be patient and think she might realize that I am not her enemy, I tried to talk to her but instead she doesn’t listen when I talk. Now, we sold our house and looking for a place to live but deep inside my heart I don’t want her to move with us anymore and I told my husband about how I feel, and it seems my husband will do nothing about it.
2006-08-06
20:03:50
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