I love my girlfriend very much in fact i love everything about her, but it really, really, really bothers me thinking that she was with someone else and that that person had sex with her. Sometimes i feel like she is a left over and a secon hand dumped by her ex, I know she is not an object like a car but i'm just telling you how i feel. They broke up a year ago and we met 3 months ago. I try not to think about it because it's in her past but i can't help it, i always try to focus on the possitives in her qualities (not that having had sex is negative) but it really gets to me everytime i think about it, or everytime i try not to think about it. I had sex only once in my life 2 years ago. I know that i'm being selfish and unresonable but what i would like to know is what is the real reason that i'm bothered by this thought?
2006-06-19
03:05:20
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lacoste
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Mental Health